Tag: St. Josemaria

  • To Survive, Get a Grip of Oneself

    To Survive, Get a Grip of Oneself

    Looking at the horizon, one anticipates the new normal. To survive, one needs  to get a grip of oneself.
    In Anticipation of the New World Order

    More than 18 months in the running, this pandemic rages on with its chronic breakthrough infections. The strict lockdowns have led to the closures of millions of small and medium-sized enterprises, thereby inflicting widespread suffering across the globe. Many have lost their jobs. As a result, many families now are experiencing not only physical hunger but also mental anguish, if not downright depression. To survive this crisis, one has to get a grip of oneself and strive to develop “antibodies” that would enable one to confront adversities.

    Incipient Spiritual Malady

    At the early onset of the pandemic on March 27, 2020, I recall that fateful night when Pope Francis gave his Urbi et Orbi message in front of an empty St. Peter’s Square. Admonishing humankind, the Holy Father aptly remarked that:

    “We have gone ahead at breakneck speed, feeling powerful and able to do anything. Greedy for profit, we let ourselves get caught up in things, and lured away by haste. We did not stop at your reproach to us, we were not shaken awake by wars or injustice, nor did we listen to the cry of the poor or of our ailing planet. We carried on regardless, thinking we would stay healthy in a world that was sick.”

    Pope francis, Urbi et Orbi Address at St. peter’s square, 27 March 2020

    Based on the remarks above, the Holy Father decried the spiritual malady that inevitably bedeviled humankind. Sadly, it confirms that the unhampered rise in economic prosperity during the last five decades of rapid technological development has only engendered a culture of indifference fuelled by greed and self-assertion. Clearly, the pandemic has exposed man’s vulnerabilities. Hence, in order to survive this crisis, it is vital to get a grip of oneself.

    VUCA World

    Back then, life was simple and easy. Everything was fairly stable with little or no disruptions at all. Today, however, we are witnessing unprecedented events: rising infections, intermittent lock-downs, extreme weather events, global capital market collapses, human migration problems, widening gap between the haves and have-nots, etc. Indeed, the 21st Century has ushered in a VUCA world, where volatility, uncertainty, complexity, and ambiguity prevail. In one fell swoop, the pandemic has shattered the realities and dreams man has aspired for.

    VUCA 2.0

    As the horizon begins to clear up, it would do well to take time out to consider adopting the antidote, VUCA 2.0 (Vision, Understanding, Courage, Adaptability), as coined by Bill George, a senior fellow at Harvard Business School. In a nutshell, it involves the following considerations, namely:

    1. Vision – Given the dark clouds of uncertainty, one cannot afford to mindlessly go with the ebbs and flows of the pandemic. On the contrary, one should take stock of the current chaos and strive to see through it in order to establish a clear vision of one’s future. As such, one needs to do a deep dive into one’s inner desires and aspirations. By doing so, one is able to craft a clear mission statement that will serve as a guide in the attainment of such vision. For example, a young man aspires to do good as a protagonist in the climate change movement. To be effective, he would need to integrate his daily life in conformity with the laws of God, man, and nature. To disregard one facet out of the three integral values would eventually frustrate the attainment of the vision.
    2. Understanding – One needs to go into a deep dive into one’s inner strengths and weaknesses; and, analyse the threats and opportunities surrounding one’s particular circumstances. This would require a daily schedule for self-reflection. Moreover, one would need to engage in regular dialogue with peers. This will enable one to assess the essential vis a vis the non-essential data. Due to the proliferation of fake news in social media, one needs to exercise due diligence in reviewing data.
    3. Courage – One needs to muster strength of the will in order to confront adversities which could disrupt the plan moving forward. Simply put, a “can do” attitude could surmount any adversity that could challenge the vision. To survive this crisis, one needs to get a grip of oneself by launching audacious plans. Such passion will enable one to forge ahead coupled with patience and perseverance to endure the pains and difficulties ahead.
    4. Adaptability – Given the volatility and unpredictably of the times, one needs to have the ability to “roll with the punches.” In other words, fostering agility when push comes to shove will make all the difference in the attainment of the goal. Whilst changes in tactics are done in the short run, it nevertheless proves vital to remain steadfast in adhering to the vision/ mission statement and the core values already established.

    Preparing for the New Normal

    In anticipation of the new normal, one simply cannot afford to relax within the confines of one’s comfort zone. Rather, it behooves us to be prepared for battle, to struggle against one’s inner demons in order to win this crisis. We march on ahead with the confidence that we are children of our Father God.

    Finally, always be reminded that one is never alone in this journey of life. St. Josemaria Escriva intercedes for us with his simple aphorism, as follows:

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    “Pray that I may never be satisfied with what is easy,” you say. I’ve already prayed. Now it is up to you to carry out that fine resolution.

    St. Josemaria Escriva, The Way, 39

    TalinMan

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  • Zero-sum Game: The Winner Takes It All!

    With the US elections fast approaching, one cannot but notice the elevated “noise” level in social media. Partisan politics is heating up at feverish levels. The buzz is all about debates, arguments, fake news, winners & losers, etc.. Sadly, the current situation has digressed into a deeper rift in societal values. Extending beyond politics, we see this alarming trend in the fragmentation of social, economic, and moral values & beliefs. Indeed, this phenomenon has exacerbated the great divide between the haves and have-nots. It’s a zero-sum game: the winner takes it all!

    In particular, we are witnesses to recent populist outrages such as # black lives matter #me too #misogyny #homophobia # trade barriers #pro choice, and the list goes on. At the core of it, one may discover the strong influence of a self-centric milieu. Its prevalence fosters the ideology of the self as the end-all and be-all of one’s existence. Hence, the principal criteria for success lie ultimately in being in control of one’s destiny with total disregard for the others. In short, we see here a dystopian view of the world. After all, isn’t it a zero-sum game: the winner takes it all?

    How does one try to avoid being swallowed by such a disturbing trend? In his classic book, The Way, St. Josemaria Escriva prescribes a simple yet appropriate rule in Point no. 25, which states:

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    “Don’t get into arguments. – Arguments usually don’t produce light because it gets extinguished by passion.”

    St. Josemaria Escriva, The Way

    Whilst Point no. 25 above seems simple, it requires learning through daily practice of some basic principles that need to be honored and followed, namely:

    1. Forget About Your Ego

    Commonly overlooked as one of deadliest weaknesses of man is pride. The Catechism defines pride as “an inordinate self-esteem or self-love, which seeks attention and honor and sets oneself in competition with God (#1866).

    Simply put, the mantra of the proud person is: “I did it my way.” It’s all about his achievements, physical attributes, material possessions, self-satisfaction, whims and vainglory. He has this feeling of entitlement, deserving only the best positions for himself. Anyone who disagrees with the proud person simply becomes the antagonist, totally disregarded or verbally abused or physically attacked with anger.

    2. Aspire for Magnanimity

    Whilst inordinate self-love may cause enmity between friends, nonetheless, it could still be purposely redirected towards striving for the greatness of the soul. Instead of having the “I” as the end goal, it rather focuses on the “Other.” Such is the virtue of magnanimity. In essence, it disposes a person to pursue noble and honorable desires in life despite its challenges. St. Thomas Aquinas describes it as a “stretching forth of the mind to great things.”1

    From the idealist’s point of view, a classic example of the virtue of magnanimity may be seen in the great works of saints. One such example is St. Francis of Assisi, who founded in the Middle Ages the men’s Order of Friars Minor and the women’s Order of Saint Claire. However, this virtue is not exclusively reserved for “special” persons endowed with superpowers.

    On the contrary, magnanimity may also reside in ordinary persons. These are people who strive to seek fulfillment in the ordinary humdrum activities of daily life in quiet and simple ways. In essence, magnanimity speaks of a person who simply gives his very best to be a better husband, parent, or child of God. On a higher level, during these COVID_19 times, an ordinary person may initiate a food donation drive amongst friends to feed the poor near their community. In short, such small gestures of kindness and thoughtfulness resonate well as truly magnanimous.

    3. Learning from an Ordinary Tailor

    To further highlight the point, I wish to share an inspiring story. It is about an unknown Polish tailor, Jan Tyranowski. As an ordinary layman, he risked his life during the Nazi regime in Poland during WWII. He started by simply using his small apartment unit as a venue to conduct doctrinal formation. This eventually led to the founding of the Living Rosary Group, a clandestine ministry of the Church. Through sheer fortitude and guidance by the Holy Spirit, it eventually grew and strengthened the Catholic heritage of Poland. The story goes, as follows:

    “At first glance, this tailor’s little prayer group might not appear to be that significant in the scope of world history. But when we see how the Lord used his desire to give the best of himself in a crisis situation, we realize that he did in fact play a crucial part in forming one of the most influential people the world has ever known. Imagine if Tyranowski responded differently to the Nazi occupation of Poland. Imagine if he said he was too busy or too scared or not skilled enough to start a Living Rosary group. We might not have had a John Paul II. Indeed, the world might be a very different place today if it was not for the magnanimity of this one tailor in Poland!

    Edward P. Sri, “Called to Greatness: The Virtue of Magnanimity“, Lay Witness Magazine

    4. To Confront the “Winner Takes It All” Mentality

    In closing, we are living in trying times. The rift in this zero-sum game where the winner takes it all is deepening. We need to confront our inner selves, as poignantly written by E. Sri:

    “Like Jan Tyranowski, we also live in a time of crisis when the Catholic faith is being attacked — perhaps not by a totalitarian regime, but by what Pope Benedict has called “a dictatorship of relativism”: a cultural environment that does not tolerate Christian religious and moral convictions and undermines the Catholic way of life. Many cultural forces today work against our efforts to build strong Christian marriages, raise godly children, and live in imitation of Christ. Like Tyranowski, we may not have much training in theology, but we have been given the faith in a period when many people do not know Christ or His Church. What will we do with this gift God has entrusted to us? Will we bury our talent in the ground or magnanimously use it to the best of our abilities?

    Ibid

    TalinMan

    Footnotes

    1 St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica II-II, Q. 129, Art. 1.

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  • Contagion of Hope

    In his “Urbi et Orbi” address for Easter Sunday, Pope Francis proclaimed to the whole world the joy of Easter with the verse, “Jesus Christ is risen!” – “He is truly risen!”.

    The Holy Father further continued to speak: “Like a new flame, this Good News springs up in the night: the night of a world already faced with epochal challenges and now oppressed by a pandemic severely testing our whole human family. In this night, the Church’s voice rings out: ‘Christ, my hope, is risen!’ ” (Easter Sequence).

    The hope brought forth by the risen Christ should, in fact, be the antidote to this pandemic, which spreads from heart to heart like a contagion that would instill trust in the Lord’s goodness. “There is no room for indifference, self-centeredness, division and forgetfulness”, said the Pope.

    On that note, Point # 3 of The Way precisely points out the importance of maturity. A trait of character that speaks of being able to control the longings of the self.

    The crucified Christ at the main altar of the Basilica de la Sagrada Familia in Barcelona, Spain.
    Point # 3     Maturity. Stop making faces and acting up like a child! Your bearing ought to reflect the peace and order in your soul.

    As the pandemic continues with its onslaught of unabated contamination across the globe, the greatest temptation is to close in on oneself; and, allow the deluge of negative information to overwhelm us.

    Instead of allowing fear and terror to destroy the psyche of society, St. Josemaria is counseling us to be calm and not lose our composure. Faced with uncertainty of what lies ahead, we turn to the Lord of Hope for He is the master of the universe.

    Let the words of Pope Francis in his homily during the Easter Vigil Mass inspire and console us, as follows:

    “Tonight we acquire a fundamental right that can never be taken away from us: the right to hope.  It is a new and living hope that comes from God.  It is not mere optimism; it is not a pat on the back or an empty word of encouragement, with a passing smile. No.  It is a gift from heaven, which we could not have earned on our own.  Over these weeks, we have kept repeating, “All will be well”, clinging to the beauty of our humanity and allowing words of encouragement to rise up from our hearts.  But as the days go by and fears grow, even the boldest hope can dissipate.  Jesus’ hope is different.  He plants in our hearts the conviction that God is able to make everything work unto good, because even from the grave he brings life.”

    TalinMan

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